[agent] split the four largest source/test pairs so one change needs one file

[tyler-dane]

Goal / finish line

Each of these pairs is split by operation into files under 600 lines, with tests split alongside their subject:

• packages/sync/src/domain/provider-command.service.ts (2,154) + .db.test.ts (4,345)
• packages/web/src/events/mutations/useEventMutations.ts (1,127) + .test.tsx (2,191)
• packages/web/src/views/Forms/EventForm/EventForm.tsx (1,085) + .test.tsx (1,795)
• packages/sync/src/server/connection.routes.ts (1,076) + .db.test.ts (1,798)

Acceptance

• No source or test file in those four areas exceeds 600 lines; bun run knip stays clean; no barrels introduced (bun lint enforces).
• Same test count before and after per package.
• One PR per pair so each stays inside the merge-guard rails.

Context

These four pairs are about 17,000 lines (7% of the repo) on the highest-churn paths. Touching provider-command.service.ts costs an agent ~180k characters of reading to change one behavior.

Package scope

sync, web

Verify commands

bun test:sync
bun test:web
bun run verify --strict

Approval boundary

allow

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