AMUT-FEAT-002 — Suite automation: cross-network grab + reconcile/orphan actuation

[itlezy]

Part of the post-0.7.3 suite forward program (Phase 2, optional controller layer). Spec: https://github.com/emulebb/amutorrent/blob/main/docs/active/items/AMUT-FEAT-002.md
Roadmap: emulebb-tooling docs/active/SUITE-JOINT-ROADMAP.md