Use CapabilityBasedPartitioner in AotiPartitioner (#20384) #14125

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CI run decision / decide	29s
unittest-cuda / linux-job	52m 44s
test-models-cuda / linux-job	46m 59s
test-executorch-cuda-build-13.0 / linux-job	16m 45s
test-executorch-cuda-build-12.6 / linux-job	19m 14s
export-model-cuda-artifact	-1s
test-model-cuda-e2e	0s
test-cuda-pybind	0s
check-all-cuda-builds	3s
	2h 16m 18s

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