fix(helm): enable readOnlyRootFilesystem + /tmp emptyDir for executor

[bart-agent]

Summary

• Enables readOnlyRootFilesystem: true + runAsNonRoot: true + runAsUser: 1000 in the default securityContext (previously commented-out defaults)
• Adds tmpDir feature flag (enabled: true by default) that mounts a writable emptyDir at /tmp — required so uv's cache dir and other tooling that writes to /tmp continue to work under the enforced read-only root FS
• Both changes are backwards-compatible: existing deployments that already set securityContext or override tmpDir.enabled: false are unaffected

Relates to CUS-8308, ING-2257.

Companion PR: The application-level fix (injecting UV_CACHE_DIR + HOME env vars into ingestion subprocesses) is in acryldata/datahub-fork#8991.

Test plan

• Deploy to a test customer environment with readOnlyRootFilesystem: true and verify executor starts and runs ingestion without filesystem errors
• Verify /tmp is writable inside the container (uv cache writes succeed)
• Verify existing customers with securityContext: {} override are unaffected

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[skrydal]

This change will effectively break deployments for users who do not use code having the change from other PR: https://github.com/acryldata/datahub-fork/pull/8991/changes
As that one sets the HOME/UV_CACHE_DIR to /tmp/....
This is too high of a risk and moreover we shouldn't be mixing up 2 layers of responsibility (config and execution). Please set default values for HOME and UV_CACHE_DIR in values of the helm chart. The change in the datahub-executor will be rendered not needed then.