Harden handshake and keepalive flow

[infinityabundance]

Summary

• add peer lookup by address and peer housekeeping tick
• retry handshakes and send keepalive pings
• auto-start streaming on host after handshake and request keyframes on client

Testing

• cmake -S . -B build
• cmake --build build
• ctest --test-dir build

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