Add smoke tests and packaging polish

[infinityabundance]

Summary

• add packet validation helper with a fuzz-ish unit test
• add smoke script and desktop file for packaging
• install service template and icons during install

Testing

• cmake -S . -B build
• cmake --build build
• ctest --test-dir build

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